Half ze Time

I don't want to make a fuss out of it since I 've ever mentioned about the nikah timing at Masjid Alkaff cannot be held between 12-2pm. So I called them again regarding it and maybe they can have leniency of letting us use the praying hall. I negotiated with the CSO and she still strict with her ruling but I tried pursued her whether we can have it right exactly after Zohor prayers, she said can but she needs time to prepare the stuffs. I told her 1.45pm max she said she can let us have our nikah that timing as long as we reach there on time. I told her we all will have our prayers there, both bride and groom and family. She paused for a while and said yes to 1.45pm! yeahh! Now trying to convince my parents. The are at the the redha state, just take the 11am belt and go. I dont want it because 2 things: 1- have to wash my make up for zohor and maybe kena charge more. 2- It's the essambly periods where 11am is dismissal time and 11.30am is the 2nd batch comes in for assem...

This is my second series of #kahwinblogs after like one year. I remembered that I babbled a lot of kahwin stuff last year. about the other half, the marriage, the journey to become parents and such. I find that we need to take a big leap to go through this phase of getting married and be merry till Jannah. Wedding is wedding, a day or two event where if can be as memorable moment as possible but there's a disclaimer, wedding and marriage is totally different thing. Wedding is all the glitz and glamour, the attention is all at you and full of fun and happiness (and sometimes not due to vendor cockup and all). But wedding is a lifetime (insyaAllah, we dont want to get married so many times right?) where you stay together with that person, to get used to their flaws and bad habits. But you know what, its not always bad things that gonna be in marriage. There's good thing like you will go through hell with the other half, you have someone to be with on your shitty day. You get to ...