Half ze Time

Last year, when we came to their office, we thought that we had the same vibe, the same thinking and the same goals of what videography and cinematography means. We were wrong. 1 year and half passed and it is only left with 3 weeks to our wedding, my videographer, VS just suddenly changed the contract agreement that we had signed. Padehal I texted them sebelum puasa, sebelum raya when is the 2nd appointment will be on and brape banyak deposit nak kene bawak. And they didnt say anything about it. Pulak tu aku tgh stress kat keje with all the showcases and concerts going on after hari raya week, the lady in team just texted me about the appointment date and the amended contract. I was like WHATTTTTTTT~ jgn mcm ni lah. Aku tgh sibuk kerje abe u just drop a bomb mcm tu. haiz. so aku complain to my friends and cousin, minta opinion and most of them were like, no-no. But after consulted with my parents, my parents told me it was kinda last minute to change vendor. And kalau tukar vendo...

Assalamualaikum Sorry I've been busy like 24/7 ever since I started new job at SOTA. back to back events and now, I'm down with flu. Remember that time, i have target with my ustazah to do the majlis Khatam Quran the night before my nikah? Well, it turns out that my ustazah couldn't make it on Friday nights as they will have majlis halaqqah with masyaikh. She only mentioned that if I really want it on Friday, it will be from 6pm till mghrib. She asked me whether can we have it on Saturday morning before my nikah? Hopes and dreams seems to fall apart, I'm already halfway through and there's so much time, effort and money wasted to know that I can't have it on Friday night. I'm trying to sooth myself with another plan. Hopefully my aunts can help me with the majlis Khatam Quran. I'll just need to finish up my recitation before my wedding, that's all. The khatam can come later with my ustazah. Why? 1- Friday at 6pm till maghrib is the most bu...

Kompang, kompang. I've been like 2 months thinking whether I want to take kompang or not. My fiance doesn't want it, he doesn't belief in kompang and he thought that it's kurafat or something, I told him it's not becuase the kurafat part will be the kuda kepang and eat all the glass pieces and whipping each other. I didn't get the Kompang group that I wanted because they will discontinue their service in September. I asked my mother whether we wanna have it or not and who will make the bunga manggar and both my parents were like, nope it's suppose to be the guy side who is paying for kompang and bring the bunga manggar. hmmmm. since he doesn't want it and it is at my side, I should contribute it on my own right? So that's one. Another is the timing, I told my mom that I want it to be on the beginning of the wedding reception as we will be walking/coming from the masjid. My mom told me it's too early, there's no one will be there. I tol...

I don't want to make a fuss out of it since I 've ever mentioned about the nikah timing at Masjid Alkaff cannot be held between 12-2pm. So I called them again regarding it and maybe they can have leniency of letting us use the praying hall. I negotiated with the CSO and she still strict with her ruling but I tried pursued her whether we can have it right exactly after Zohor prayers, she said can but she needs time to prepare the stuffs. I told her 1.45pm max she said she can let us have our nikah that timing as long as we reach there on time. I told her we all will have our prayers there, both bride and groom and family. She paused for a while and said yes to 1.45pm! yeahh! Now trying to convince my parents. The are at the the redha state, just take the 11am belt and go. I dont want it because 2 things: 1- have to wash my make up for zohor and maybe kena charge more. 2- It's the essambly periods where 11am is dismissal time and 11.30am is the 2nd batch comes in for assem...